Dumbass Alert!

I tell ya, I swear I married a dumbass. For weeks i have been complaining to my husband to fix his front tire.
Fact: every time he leaves for California he leaves the vehicle in some state. Once it had no reverse, what fun that was! Most of the time its a flat tire, and no money to be able to fix it, or if any money it needs to go towards a bill, food, or the pets. So i have to constantly keep adding air. This last time he promised once he got back the first thing he'd do, was get a patch for the front tire, fix the spare thats been in the garage for a year now! So 3 days later...today, he's driving home from a job and guess what? The rear tire blows out and damn near flips the truck, it just didnt blow out it lost all the tread. Of course their's no spare, NOT EVEN a tire remover tool in his fracking truck! He calls a company and its Sunday GUESS HOW MUCH TO FIX IT???? $262.00 (88.00 service call, 36 to fix it, and 138.00 for a new tire)!!!! OPPOSE TO 50.00 TO PATCH 2 TIRES AND PUT THE TOOL BACK IN HIS TRUCK!
How do you help someone who refuses to listen to you? I have dealt with things like this for over 12 years now, the frustration is beyond anything you can imagine. I just want to beat his ass! Knock some sense into him....But then i'd be called a Husband Beater!
Why is it? Men will listen to men, other people, but never the person they married? Who supposeable they married because they thought they were intelligent, wanted to make the other happy and would care for them, and protect them. There are countless times i have forewarned him, tried to protect us,  prevent negative things from happening, and yet all of it ignored. And we pay the consequences, and suffer even more. I feel like JOB from the bible! My mother-in-law says: "Just leave him! He's just like his father! Don't wait till your my age." Nice advise from his own mother, eh?!

So ladies how do you deal with it? He isn't going to change, and I'm losing my hair, have high blood pressure and am stressed 24/7! I just wish sometimes I'd just win the lottery give him half and be done with it. He knows it too! Awful yes? but saddly true. So he never gives me lottery ticket money either!

URGHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well I think I have calmed down a bit but he isnt home yet and frankly he'd be wise to stay away cause I'd love to still give him a smack down for his incompetence.

One last thing...I bet you 10 to 1 he wont fix those two tires!

*********UPDATE*********
Just was told by my husband the Bill for REPAIRS WAS $322.77!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Son of Bitch what a rip off!.
Firstly, theirs no license no. on this companies invoice, Number 2,  he charged my husband 2 x's the tax for the tire (chrgd once at walmart, and then charged again on the invoice total, and didnt give him the walmart tire reciept, so if something goes wrong with that tire we're screwed) and they marked it up by 32.20 ( which he clearly told my husband  " and "the actual cost walmart charges for the tire!" (a blantan lie), caused i call the actual walmart he bought it from). They charged him $170.00 for tire and walmart charges $130.00!
I'M so pissed!

So I called and got the owners name, told the dispatcher they better reverse the dbl tax and over charge of tire. The guy basically blew me off and claimed it was a charge normal to us for the tire... LIAR!  Then he brushed me off and told me to call back Monday to talk to owner. But when i said  "And you better hope to GOD your company is licensed pal" he said "OMG".
See Alot of Florida Business's are NOT licensed! So come Monday I will be verifying that and the statutes I feel this company failed under are justified: Unlawful Acts and Practices 559.920- 8. 9. 13! Then call the owners with power behind me!
NOW I'M MADDIER THAN HELL!
I need one of the boxing punching bags I tell ya!!!!!
Remember $50.00 vs. $322.77  think he learned anything??????
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!




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Stewed, I'm Done

Okay so I have been mulling this over and over and would like some outside opinions. I understand as a people we should help others (A Christian Value) but at the expense of our own people? I'm not comfortable about that. See when our own country cant afford to give its own people Medical Insurance like Canada does, or offer dental health to those who cant afford it, or stop homelessness, or give them shelter then I think America has an issue. If all these things were here for us, then yes I can see helping outside countries. It seems America "Land of The Free" wants to give "freely" to all people worldwide and let its own people suffer. Thats where I draw the line. And worst yet when New Orleans had to be rebuilt for the umteen time.....that just blew my mind! Why would you continously waste money to rebuild something that is nortorious for massive hurricanes every few years?!

Why live in areas called tornadoe alley when every year mass destruction occurs and millions if not billions go to rebuild so in a another year we can spend it all over again and watch thousands die.
This logic just dumbfounds me beyond contempt!
It seems America is always the first to pour out money to look good but 99% of the time those we help can't even help themselves to begin with. Yet we will rebuild their homes, provide food and medical care, for nothing in return but a thank you, a handshake, and tears of joy for getting a new home and food.

When it comes down to it, if war came to our land countries like Haiti couldnt do anything to help us, 90% of the countries we help wouldnt. If China invades America we're screwed, every country could step up and we'd still lose. But if China had a catastrophy we'd be the first to help them....URGH!

I see sites everywhere popping up and major companies giving away money to Haiti right now, yet if you or i asked for help they'd laugh at us. Like we're not worthy of help. We have to have a horriffic, destructive, mass natural element destroys us first, then instead of just helping for nothing, insurance companies come in and raise our rates for it, builders jack up prices to rebuild it and and hospitals treat those with great insurance as if they are kings and queens. But the poor sap without medical insurance is left in the hallway and glanced at as if they are the coroners next job.

Again where is the logic in this society?
Our goverment complains we're in a constant defisit, and cant figure out where any money is, well hello its in every other country you've been helping, its in the pockets of congressmen and goverment leaders, and major corporations you fools. All things "we as a people" cant control that our "fore fathers" said we could!
This economy crunch is a farse, I think its a way for major controling companies and goverment to make more gains for themselves and further reduce its middle class to rubble. Force us to get less pay for more work and destroy credit ratings, and forbid those who deserve loans from getting out from under the whales belly. And dont get me started with the War in Iraq! It's all BS. And the fact we destroy their buildings then go back and rebuild them is ludicrous to me. When we dropped the bomb on Hiroshima did we go back and rebuild the whole fracking city? NO! War is destruction not "Oh sorry lets fix that for you, afterall it was our bad"

And where the Hell is Osama bin Laden? I bet our goverment knows, no man can hide with all the technology thats out their, their probably feeding him, housing him and using what should be my medical insurance. And when something goes wrong they have a guinea pig to blame it on.
Twin Towers...please if you are so gullible to believe it was a terrorist act from the east you dont deserve to breathe the same air as me. The goverment set it all up, they knew exactly what to use to put fear in the American people, come on wake up people hell i knew back in 1970 what could bring the towers down. Duh a huge ass plane! I was only 10 yrs. old then. Think about it, if terrorists really wanted to do mass damage why would they do it at 8:46 and 9:05am? Hell, I would've waited till 11:00 am when most employees and the building was totally full, or at the latest 2:00 after lunchtime. Terrorists arent stupid!
Personally I think it was just a way to justify the continuation of war in the east, to get more american soldiers fired up to go risk their lives.
And what about our vets who come home, psychologically destroyed and struck with so called "Illness" thats not untreatable (from the chems they use in warfare)?

My point is humans are not the most intelligent creatures on the Earth. Which is really sad to realize in life.
So you better hope their is a God cause frankly, if i were him I would be so disgusted with this creation called mankind. I can only hope he brings forth a "revised version of mankind" along with a new earth. No wonder the Earth is revolting against us.

Do yourself a favor watch:
www.history.com/content/life_after_people  on the HISTORY Channel it has amazing shows which shows how if man was removed from the Earth how she would reverts back to its natural state...sure it takes 10,000 years but she is amazing!

And as for War, do me a favor get some rich ass guy to buy an island and have your wars on it, last man standing wins, instead of letting innocent civilians get killed and destroy cities....stupid morons!

I have to go take a hot bathe to cool down, this subject justs get me so riled up!

Out with the old, In with the new!

Well we all make resolutions every year and 96% of us never follow through. So I have a challenge for you. Just write down 1 resolution that is reasonable and you know you can do it. Post it on your refrigerator, so you see it everyday, and see how long it takes till you throw it in the trash because its just aggravating you instead....LOL.

Let's see OLD, well I havent much since I lost or sold it, wait my hubby he's old! LOL Christ, the man is 2 years younger than me but acts like he's 65, he even watches OLD TV shows. Hmmm what else...My golden retriever is going to be 12 and frankly I'll be lucky if he makes 13, his body is changing rapidily and so grey, but I figure so long as he still rushes to the door to go outside and play ball he's happy. His mate is 4 years old and she wears me out she can play catch all day long even if her tongue is hanging to the ground and 4 inches wide (wierdest thing I've ever seen). She's the energerizer bunny on crack when it comes to fetch!

Now for the NEW! Well started blogging, it's a pain to keep them fresh and interesting. Frankly I dont even know if that adsense is worth it or not, its not panning out like I'd hoped. I can't even buy a carton of smokes yet! Speaking of which can you believe the price of a carton these days, $50.00 hell i use to be able to get a pack in my teens for $.60. I know I know....quit, but frankly everytime a long term smoker quits they get cancer suddenly, or some other deadly health issue. Almost as if the Devil says "Fine, quit, I'll just give you some fast deadly disease, since you dont want to play the slow suicide card anymore!"

Alright, Alright back to the new...Well lose weight look hot for my 50th b-day thats a goal, go to London for a week for my birthday (yeah maybe if i hit the lottery or some dead relative leaves me money) So far have $344.00 towards that endeavor (greeting card sales and xmas money).
Back to the new...launch my greeting cards into local shops here in Florida. Buy a old, mint condition Camaro, yep I have a need for speed, a solid metal car and non computerized BS! This way it can survive most anything like some jacka** setting off a EMP (Electromagnetic Pulse Bomb.

Try to be more social....hahahahaha!
Get the hell outta the house more, seriously, I'm either creating art or online doing other important things 10-12 hours daily, frankly I'm exhausted! Find more ways to make money online, WITHOUT getting ripped off....Im sure ya all know what I mean.

Well I could say alot more...but certain viewers know me, so I cant...lol
Anyway, Im hoping you get everything that you deserve this year, and are safe in doing so, or at least attempt to be. Happy New Years Everyone!